Perfecting God’s Love – Within

Written by Larry M. Jaynes:

 I John 4:11: Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another.

What an awesome verse of Scripture, commencing with the word Beloved, for this is God’s point of view of you and me, He recognizes us as His Beloved. The word if is not written to imply a question or a doubt, because the word if in the Greek Text is the word since. Thus, the Scripture reads “Beloved, since God so loved us,” for God has loved us since the world began (Ephesians 1:4).

The words we ought implies another extension of the true depths of love of God, because He is not demanding a reciprocal love back to Him or challenging us to love others, He is simply stating that we ought to love one another. The human love that sometimes manifests itself and that many people have known demands equal love in return to sustain its presence; however, God’s love (spiritual love) is always with us, because God loves us unconditionally and therefore we have continuous access to His love. God simply states that we should learn to share His love towards one another as proof (to us individually) that He indeed loves us.

I John 4:12: No man hath seen God at any time {with his eyes}. If {or Since} we love one another, God dwelleth in us, and his love is perfected in us.

God does dwell within the heart and fiber of the human soul who is a Christian, and when we do love others, we will begin to realize we do have God’s love dwelling within. Not only will we realize that God lives in our hearts, but His love becomes perfected in us, love comes into full bloom and perfection in our hearts as we reach out and love others.

I John 4:16–17:
-16: And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him.
-17: Herein is our love made perfect, that we may have boldness in the day of judgment: because as he is, so are we in this world.

God is love, for this is ― as he is, and when our God-given love is made perfect via loving one another (see verse 12 above), we will become, as God is love.

Have we judged ourselves worthy enough to love others with God’s love, or do we simply judge others? With God’s love in our hearts, we have boldness – today – to love even the unlovable! The day of judgment is today, not at the end of the world, but right now. Many believers suspect that the Day of Judgment includes us having to pay retribution for sins committed, but just look at the setting in which this statement sits: our love made perfect is on one end and on the other we find as he is, so are we in this world. The context that the day of judgment is set in – is now – and is to be lived with His love. Do we love today? Has our love been made perfect in this present day of grace? Do we know and believe that we are as he is (and He is love, see verse 16 above), or are we estranged from the Father and His love? Christ has “delivered us from the wrath to come” (I Thessalonians 1:10). No Christian ever has to feel separated from God or His never-ending love (Romans 8:37–39), because God always loves us; recall that we are His beloved, and He desires us to experience the wonderfulness of enjoying the perfection of His love in us by our loving today (period).

In Colossians 3:4 we read that, “When Christ, who is our life, shall appear, then shall ye also appear with him in glory.” Note that we will not appear in shame, or to be judged, but we will appear with him in glory. We Christians have a Savior and he assures us of our salvation and relieves us of the unfounded misconceptions of judgments, condemnations, and tribulations ― for he overcame the world for us.

John 3:15–17, and 16:33:
-15: That whosoever believeth in him {Jesus} should not perish, but have eternal life.
-16: For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
-17: For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
-33: These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.

Walking with the love of God in our hearts today will relieve of us any and all fears about our glorious future to be with God and our Savior. God has made us accepted as His beloved in Christ (Ephesians 1:6), and as members of His family (Ephesians 2:19), and when we reach out with His love, then we will know this with an absolute certainty, and we will enjoy His spiritual love enthusiastically.

Growing up I was afraid of God and the fires of hell like so many others. God in His magnificent foresight must have known that I would not be alone carrying around this unfounded burden of fear, so to bless His children, God simply had the next two verses written to dispel these fears from our lives and He gave us His love to back up His promise.

I John 4:18–19:
-18: There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.
-19: We love him, because he first loved us.

We have total access to a spiritual love that has been bestowed on us by the Creator of the Universe Who also happens to be our heavenly Father, and now that we have become aware of this love, we may love without fear or hesitation. We may enjoy God’s love, thanking Him for the strength His love gives, for the load His love carries, and for the burdens His love lifts ― His love is simply uplifting. When we actually reach out with love to others, we will experience a totally perfect, fearless lifestyle of love that will assure our hearts in the present tense that our future is going to be simply marvelous!

Have you ever wondered, how can I know for certain if I completely love God, and how will God know that I do love Him? Well, the Bible has a test that will prove your love for God to your heart’s content, and the answer to this assessment is the next two verses:

I John 4:20–21:
-20: If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?
-21: And this commandment have we from him, That he who loveth God love his brother also.

Whenever we actually reach out with God’s love to others, especially believers, our brothers and sisters in Christ (Galatians 6:10), we may prove to ourselves that we indeed love our God, and as well, this is how we know and believe the compassionate love God has for us individually!

 Colossians 3:14: And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.

God’s Word instructs above all things that we put on charity, which is the love of God, and the Bible says that love is the bond of perfectness. The word bond means that which ties, holds, or binds together, and in this verse we find that love is what holds us together. The word perfectness means total completeness, for there is absolutely nothing greater than having the love of God manifested in our own lives. When believers begin realizing that they have God’s divine love in their hearts (Romans 5:5), and they begin using this love in daily situations, then they will come to experience a genuine reassurance that they are building their spiritual lives on the true bond of perfectness.

In a world where almost everything is imperfect, we can tap into something that is a perfect constant reality, and is our bond of perfectness, for God’s love allows us to enjoy precious moments of total completeness immersed in God’s most perfect love. As we reach out to one another with God’s love, we can come to experience that God’s love is perfected within us.

 John 16:33 (The Amplified Bible):**
I have told you these things, so that in Me you may have [perfect] peace and confidence. In the world you have tribulation and trials and distress and frustration; but be of good cheer [take courage; be confident, certain, undaunted]! For I have overcome the world. [I have deprived it of power to harm you and have conquered it for you.]

I John 4:20–21 (The Amplified Bible):**
-20: If anyone says, I love God, and hates (detests, abominates) his brother [in Christ], he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, Whom he has not seen.
-21: And this command (charge, order, injunction) we have from Him: that he who loves God shall love his brother [believer] also.

**Scripture taken from THE AMPLIFIED BIBLE.
The Amplified New Testament copyright (c) 1958, 1987 by The Lockman Foundation.
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