A Virtuous Woman

Written by Larry M. Jaynes:

A virtuous woman enjoys believing trust in God which is the crowning complement of all her virtues; her “price is far above rubies!”

Her virtues are a crown recognized by her God, her Savior, and a joyous example to all the children of God!

Her virtues are not innate, they are learned, worked for, and practiced, and are the result of her labor of love for her God and the household of faith!

The Bible tells us how wonderful a virtuous woman really is; her witness is the true story of her gentle, Christ-like lifestyle as she lives His-story!

In Proverbs 31:10–31 we read the qualities of a virtuous woman!

50 qualities of her virtues are as follows:

She is 1- strong, 2- invaluable (verse 10); 3- trustworthy, 4- sufficient in all things (verse 11); 5- pure character, 6- a  blessing to her husband, 7- accommodating (verse 12); 8- ingenious, 9- industrious (verse 13); 10- proficient, 11- displays genuine compassion (verse 14); 12- well-behaved, 13- obliging, 14- considerate to her family/household members (verse 15); 15- versatile, 16- beneficial (verse 16); 17- robust in mind and body (verse 17); 18-  knows her worth, 19- efficient, 20- watchful, (verse 18); 21- thrifty/frugal, 22- skillful (verse 19); 23- charitable, 24- merciful (verse 20); 25-  fearless/courageous, 26- believes for family abundance (verse 21); 27-  a well-organized housekeeper, 28- dresses tasteful, 29- (verse 22); 30- an honor to her husband, 31- courteously popular, (verse 23); 32- dependable/industrious, 33- proficient, (verse 24); 34- respectful, 35- optimistic, 36- hopeful, (verse 25); 37- wise, 38- discreet, 39- kindhearted (verse 26); 40- practical, 41- energetic, 42- earnest stewardship of family resources (verse 27); 43- deserving of receiving respect from her children, 44- deserving of receiving awed respect from her husband, (verse 28); 45- has mastered godly virtues, 46- an honorable example to other women of God, (verse 29);  47-  God fearing/respecting, 48- praiseworthy lifestyle (verse 30); 49- her kindness is returned and rewarded back to her, 50- she is praised for her pure, virtuous actions (verse 31).

A virtuous woman radiates the qualities of Christ within, who is “the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price” (I Peter 3:4). “A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband” (Proverbs 12:4).

These qualities are worthy of the price that is far above rubies! (See our study, titled: Ruth – Revealing Our Redeemer.)

Below is an Extended, Alternation Structure1; compare corresponding Roman letters A. with a., on down to E. with e.

Proverbs 31:10-31, Title: The Model Women.

A.| verses 10–12, Her Husband.

    B.| verses 13-19, Her occupation.
      C.| verse 20, Her character. Bounty.
        D.| verse 21, Her household.
          E.| verse 22, Herself. Without.

a.| verse 23, Her Husband.

    b.| verses 24–25, Her occupation.
      c.| verse 26, Her character. Wisdom.
        d.| verses 27–28, Her household.
          e.| verses 29–31, Herself. Within.

1 (Structures are found from Genesis 1:1 and all that way through the Bible to Revelation 22:21.For more on Structures, search keyword Structure on this website.)

Proverbs 31:10–31 (King James Version):
10: Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11: The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
12: She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13: She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14: She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15: She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
16: She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
17: She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
18: She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
19: She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
20: She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
21: She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
22: She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
23: Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
24: She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
25: Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
26: She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
27: She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
28: Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
29: Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
30: Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
31: Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

Proverbs 31:10–31 (The Amplified Bible*):
10: A capable, intelligent, and virtuous woman ─ who is he who can find her? She is far more precious than jewels and her value is far above rubies or pearls.
11: The heart of her husband trusts in her confidently and relies on and believes in her securely, so that he has no lack of [honest] gain or need of [dishonest] spoil.
12:  She comforts, encourages, and does him only good as long as there is life within her.
13:  She seeks out wool and flax and works with willing hands [to develop it].
14: She is like the merchant ships loaded with foodstuffs; she brings her household’s food from a far [country].
15:  She rises while it is yet night and gets [spiritual] food for her household and assigns her maids their tasks.
16: She considers a [new] field before she buys or accepts it [expanding prudently and not courting neglect of her present duties by assuming other duties]; with her savings [of time and strength] she plants fruitful vines in her vineyard.
17: She girds herself with strength [spiritual, mental, and physical fitness for her God-given task] and makes her arms strong and firm.
18:  She tastes and sees that her gain from work [with and for God] is good; her lamp goes not out, but it burns on continually through the night [of trouble, privation, or sorrow, warning away fear, doubt, and distrust].
19: She lays her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
20: She opens her hand to the poor, yes, she reaches out her filled hands to the needy [whether in body, mind, or spirit].
21: She fears not the snow for her family, for all her household are doubly clothed in scarlet.
22: She makes for herself coverlets, cushions, and rugs of tapestry. Her clothing is of linen, pure and fine, and of purple [such as that of which the clothing of the priests and the hallowed cloths of the temple were made].
23: Her husband is known in the [city’s] gates, when he sits among the elders of the land.
24: She makes fine linen garments and leads others to buy them; she delivers to the merchants girdles [or sashes that free one up for service].
25: Strength and dignity are her clothing and her position is strong and secure; she rejoices over the future [the latter day or time to come, knowing that she and her family are in readiness for it]!
26: She opens her mouth in skillful and godly Wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness [giving counsel and instruction].
27: She looks well to how things go in her household, and the bread of idleness (gossip, discontent, and self-pity) she will not eat.
28: Her children rise up and call her blessed (happy, fortunate, and to be envied); and her husband boasts of and praises her, [saying],
29: Many daughters have done virtuously, nobly, and well [with the strength of character that is steadfast in goodness], but you excel them all.
30: Charm and grace are deceptive, and beauty is vain [because it is not lasting], but a woman who reverently and worshipfully fears the Lord, she shall be praised!
31:  Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her own works praise her in the gates [of the city]!

*Scripture taken from THE AMPLIFIED BIBLE, Old Testament copyright (c) 1965, 1989 by the Zondervan Corporation.
Used by permission.

Knowing Our Election of God

Written by Larry M. Jaynes:

It is one thing to hear that God called us into His family; however, it is an entirely different thing to know and believe in our hearts that we are members of God’s family. The Epistles of Thessalonians were written to believers who absolutely knew their heavenly standing in God’s household, and were believing daily with hopeful anticipation for the return of their Savior. God’s healing Word teaches believers how to have a well-balanced spiritual life while we are awaiting and anticipating the return, teaching that we have freedom in God’s grace and spiritual understanding.

I and II Thessalonians while revealing truths regarding Christ’s return also shows the believing Christian how to fine-tune their lives as they continue walking in grace with spiritual revelations of divine light.

When people become saved, they can sometimes slide into a lifestyle of rigorous condemnation for every mistake they make, and also they can begin condemning others (at least in their minds). Other believers who learn about their freedom in Christ can sometimes conduct themselves as people living in total lawlessness, knowing (thinking) that no matter what they do, God will forgive them.

In truth, God forgives both of these attitudes, and yet there is a true balance in life between the two, and no matter how good our intentions are, we will from time to time fluctuate between the two. I and II Thessalonians are terrific Epistles that enlighten the believers on how to walk with God being rooted, grounded, and established within the parameters of faith, hope, and charity.

I Thessalonians 1:4 – Knowing, brethren beloved, your election of God.

A major key to begin walking with God is knowing that we are brethren and that we are beloved to God, to Jesus Christ, and to one another. “Your election of God” means that God has chosen you, and the word election can also be translated as a chosen vessel (of God). God has chosen us to have Christ within our earthly vessels (our bodies). The believers that Paul was writing to knew deep within their hearts that they themselves were the chosen of God, and that they were vessels elected and chosen by God into His family, and that all believers were their brothers and sisters in Christ, being members of the spiritual community of God’s household.

I Thessalonians 1:5-8:
-5:  For our gospel came not unto you in word only, but also in power, and in the Holy Ghost {holy spirit}, and in much assurance; as ye know what manner of men we were among you for your sake.
-6:  And ye became followers of us, and of the Lord, having received the word in much affliction, with joy of the Holy Ghost {holy spirit}:
-7:  So that ye were ensamples to all that believe in Macedonia and Achaia.
-8:  For from you sounded out the word of the Lord not only in Macedonia and Achaia, but also in every place your faith to God-ward is spread abroad; so that we need not to speak any thing.

When they received the Gospel, it meant more to them than words with empty meanings because they also received power, and this power helped them overcome all “affliction” or mental pressure and gave them their continuous conviction to walk in the balanced life that God’s Word reveals. The words, “Holy Ghost” mean their holy spirit, a God-given gift, and this gift of holy spirit gave them joy. As the belief of their own convictions in Christ became known to others, they set examples as a living Church who knew their election of God.

The more we learn about our calling and election of God, the greater we can walk with Him in understanding.

The New Man Within

Written by Larry M. Jaynes:

When we believe in the inherent truth of God’s healing Word, the Word itself will begin making known to our minds the spiritual realities of having Christ within. The Christ from within our hearts will then make known to our minds the Creator, our Father – God. When we begin to understand God as our Father – He makes known to us the spiritual completeness of the new man (since we have the mind of Christ) that was created in us. Additionally, God begins revealing to us the spiritual reality of the one body of Christ, of which body Christ is the head, and we are all members in that one body, and this body of Christ grows in the love of God.

Ephesians 4:15-16:
-15:  But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ {for Christ is the head of the body – Ephesians 1:22-23}.
-16:  From whom {Christ} the whole body fitly joined together and compacted by that which every joint supplieth, according to the effectual working in the measure of every part {that is us}, maketh increase of the body unto the edifying of itself in love.

As we learn the Scriptures and begin seeing and believing what the Word teaches, we will begin supplying (or giving) to the body of Christ and further be edifying (building up) the body in love. Changing our minds to harmonize with the Scriptures is how we bring the Word of God into reality. It is how the Christian Church of believers today bring the living Word out of the dark ages. God’s Word can give men and women a true spiritual revival that grows within the heart and supplies the mind with impressions of tangible truths of and in God’s Word. This is what gives men and women a true godly renaissance, and fuels a rediscovery of eternal light and love.

Ephesians 4:22-24:
-22:  That ye put off concerning the former conversation {lifestyle, behavior} the old man {biblically means ourselves before salvation}, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts {which is latent within everybody}.
-22:  And be renewed in the spirit of your mind;
-24:  And that ye put on the new man {i.e., the Christ in you}, which after God is {was} created in righteousness and true holiness.

One of the most wonderful things about the Church Epistles is that the Word of God never demands that we change our minds with nothing to replace old thoughts. Rather His Word always shows us how to replace old thoughts and emotions with new thoughts and emotions by putting on the mind of Christ. The “thou shalt nots” and “thou shalts” that are often propounded today only scare people away from the truth because God’s Word is always teaching us to have, rather than have not. In Ephesians above, the Word is specifically dealing with the renewed mind, telling us what we have in Christ, which is “the new man which is after God,” and is created in us and revealed to us throughout the Epistles.

Colossians 3:10 – And {you and I} have put on the new man, which is {being} renewed in knowledge after the image of him {God} that created him {“him” is our created spirit}:

God created within us the means to walk in a newness of life, a life that is being renewed in the knowledge of God. To walk in the new man is not a command but a request from a loving Father to His beloved children. It is an invitation to have a meaningful relationship with Him Who created life, for His Word shows us how to enjoy life by bringing the Christ within us – out to the forefront of our lives.